You have stories to tell, and passions to share, and things to talk about that are more interesting than the weather.
Get noticed for who you are, not what you look like.
Nasty and spiteful – Mean spirited people don’t stop being so in a relationship and may attack your self esteem by latching on to what they think are flaws in you.
Emotionally Unavailable – This means unavailable for a mutually fulfilling, healthy relationship.
Unavailable people give limited relationships because they have limits on what they are able to give.
They’re an assclown – There’s ten very key signs that you’re with someone who means you and the relationship no good.
People who act with love, care, trust, and respect don’t do stuff like pressing the Reset Button, the Outrageous Principle, sneakily changing the goalposts of the relationship, the Dripfeed Manouver and telling lies/misrepresenting themselves. If you’re experiencing more than one of these ‘issues’, that’s a code red, especially if you have only recently become involved with them.
If you are unsure of what you’re experiencing, it’s code amber, evaluate the situation, throw some icy water over your feelings and plans, 100% eyes and ears open, and try to have a conversation with them about it.