Every Sunday morning, he helps an elderly neighbor grocery shop? Plus, I think people tend to type in round, even numbers, looking for people 20-30 versus 20-29.
Also, many dating coaches say that the fact that a guy was married shows he has the ability to commit. He said my profile read differently than other people’s and he asked me several questions referencing things I’d written in it.
I was about to give him some profile-writing tips when it hit me: if we were both on the site, we were obviously both single.
Why give him the tips so they could work on attracting another girl?
Many guys wrote more than a typical “Hey, what’s up? ” I knew they probably hadn’t read my profile and sent the same three-word question to everybody. I used to be strict with my dating parameters about age and would want a guy who was a couple years younger or older.
” email and asked questions about specific things I’d mentioned in my profile, like where to find Chicago-style pizza in L. 3) I became a better dater ( think) and more discerning. (And, hopefully, no one was answering them.) I also started paying more attention to guys’ profiles and looked for specific examples and stories that demonstrated their character versus just glossing over them. But when I added a few years onto each end—I opened myself up to more dating options.
Then, have a few trusted opposite-sex friends read your finished product and get their feedback.